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One night at Safehaven I was walking through the dungeon checking everything out while Sara played with a friend. As I was walked into one of the playrooms, I noticed one of the new guests looked familiar. I did not want to be weird and stand there staring at them, so I continued walking around the dungeon. I came back around after checking the other rooms and did another quick glance in the room. That is when I realized who the guest was. We had a genuine celebrity at Safeha

While hanging out at Safehaven I was actually unfolding my own adventure. During events we would often sneak out to smoke weed in Sara's car. Then we would have the mission of sneaking back into the club without being detected. The head of security Leo was very quiet and dressed like a cop. He was a clean-cut Mexican man in his 50s that looked a little like Jimmy Smits. He even had a gun and a bullet proof vest. For the first few months we went to events we tried to avoid Leo

Safehaven's owner rewarded Sara's efforts and positive influence over the dungeon by honoring her as Mistress of Ceremonies at that year's Bondcon. Mistress Azule was the owner and founder of Bondcon. Bondcon is the international Dominatrix and Bondage convention. Having gone from relatively unknown to Mistress of Ceremonies at the international convention for your industry in only nine months is a fucking accomplishment to say the least. Neither I, nor Sara knew what to expe

After nine months working at Safehaven, Sara was given the chance to run her own event again. Mistress Azule had come up with the idea to offer the employees of Safehaven the opportunity to promote and organize their own events. Each event would require a minimum of $1000 worth of tickets sold. Once that minimum was reached Mistress Azule would split all profit with the event organizer. Sara originally had one of her coworkers as her partner. The two of them came up with the

The day of the event everything that could go wrong did. Sara had a guest list a mile long and this greatly angered the woman who ran the front desk and sold tickets. She just happens to be Mistress Azule's daughter. The guy who usually helped Leo with security did not show up and I had to fill in as backup security and general manager. Since Sara was busy with makeup and costumes, all problems and complaints found their way to me. Two performers dropped out. Sara started to

Sara and I used some of the profit from the event to go to Las Vegas for a weekend. One of our friends from the dungeon was having a birthday party and we used it as an excuse to visit Sara's family. We stayed off the strip for really cheap and were able to get a nicer room. At this point I had been to Vegas with Sara twice and never even visited the strip. Our friend’s party was at a swinger's club. As kinky as Sara and I were, neither of us had been to a swinger's club befo

After the success of the first Club Excite event, you know we had to do another one. Mistress Azule was on board and we setup the next event date for a few months away in October.  The theme would be "Villains and Victims." Dominants were encouraged to dress as their favorite "bad guys" while subs took on the roles of victims. This time we weren't going to take risks with performers bailing on us or causing drama. We enlisted only reliable people we knew would show up. One of

Sara and I were feeling pretty confident with two successful events under our belts. Mistress Azule had a large amount of confidence in us. I was super cocky. We had taken a dungeon that was struggling to get people in for events and made it the most popular place to be each month. I wanted to truly prove I was the king of the events and take the worst event at the venue and make it successful. I also wanted to do sex parties after attending the swinger's club in Vegas. So, w

I had continued hanging out with Leo at his grow op and the dungeon on a regular basis. We had become good friends. Problems arose with the grow op when the property owner wanted to raise the rent. Leo had a silent partner who had invested all the money in the equipment but the building itself where the grow op was located was owned by a local gang member/ Realtor. He took a cut of the weed at the end of each harvest as his rent payment. Leo had put up additional drywall wal

One night during a public event one of the regulars alerted me to a problem. The event that night was not one of Sara and my events, but many people started to associate me as an employee of the dungeon. Apparently, there was a naked man in the corner of one of the rooms jerking off. Not only was this not allowed on nights the dungeon was open to the public, but he was staring at people while they were playing as he was touching himself and making them uncomfortable. I went t

In January Sara and I decided to concentrate on doing Club Anarchy events. We had agreed to do one public Club Excite event every three months as a way for people to come in and sign up for memberships. The rest would be Club Anarchy each month. The Infamous Forced Orgasm and the beloved Survive Her Challenge became a regular part of every Anarchy event. The Forced Orgasm usually started the night, and the Survive Her Challenge was typically towards the end. Sara turned in a

My main focus was living my dream owning a cannabis grow op. Leo and I started making edibles regularly and would sell them at the events low key. He showed me all his secret ways of making butter and tincture. I kept pitching the idea to somehow make cannabis drinks and we ended up creating a new recipe for cannabis tincture using food grade vegetable glycerin. Traditionally most tinctures are made with alcohol and can take minimum two weeks to ferment. By using vegetable gl

People often asked where the name Tetra came from. Some theorized it was inspired by a fish breed. Others claimed Tetra meant Four and symbolized the four letters in BDSM. Although that BDSM idea was pretty clever, they were all wrong. I would explain to people at parties that Tetra was actually a Dominatrix from a video game I had designed. With a Dominatrix as a character many people expected my game to be a BDSM game, and I had to explain to them it was not. Several people

Every year Los Angeles is host to one of the largest Adult Industry Conventions. Many of the top porn stars and companies have booths and representation at the event. You can buy all kinds of sex toys and videos. You can even meet the actors. They always put a big billboard off the freeway each year advertising the opportunity to meet your favorite stars. As a teen I had seen a show on our local public access channel where the hosts went to Adult con and interviewed porn star

For the March event Sara was adamant we do a hot oil wrestling event. One of Sara's new coworkers and Bonnie Bondage's significant other was a former competitive wrestler. We let her be the referee and compete in the main event. We even put her on the flier. Sara was also on the wrestling team in high school, but I don't think she actually ever wrestled anyone. Sara purchased a blow-up kids pool and an industrial size package of KY Oil. We put wrestling mats down on the floor

March is when everything started going wrong for me. Sara started getting jealous of the time I was spending at the grow op even though she was constantly going to concerts and bars with her friends. She started being nasty and rude to Leo all the time. Leo did not put up with it. Sometimes we would spend the night in the office at the mullet after a late night at Safehaven. Leo had a habit of showing up early while Sara was trying to sleep and making a ton of noise. I had al

Club Anarchy had been going on for just over six months. By now we had a loyal core of performers who regularly showed up for us. We called them the Anarchists. The original Anarchists consisted of Mistress Bonnie Bondage, Madam Chocolate Barbie, Miss Lily, Nancy Lust, Kitty Clit, Miss Cassidy, Vicky Vixen, and of course Mistress Tetra herself. Mistress Bonnie Bondage was Tetra's best friend and our main performer. She had originally joined Safehaven as a sub. By now Bonnie h

"You May Know Queen Cleopatra, King Tut, Or Anubis but History sometimes casts a Shadow on Egypt's Greatest and Most Sadistic Ruler. Legends Tell of the Beautiful and Seductive Queen Tet. Queen Tet was a Tyrannical Queen of Egypt known for having the Most Slaves Ever. She Spent Most of Her Time Hosting Lavish Play Parties that were beloved by All the People of Egypt. She was also known for her "Interesting" Ways of Executing those not Loyal or Obedient. Those sentenced to Dea

After leaving the Grow op I was desperate to find some way to still be part of the cannabis industry. I also wanted revenge on Leo. I could not grow weed at my house and renting a place was beyond my budget. I decided to start a website and social media for myself as a cannabis reviewer. I had a bit of a reputation for being picky and only smoking the best weed so taking the job of reviewing dispensaries seemed natural. Many of the dispensaries near my house were overpriced a

Kitty Clit was the woman who squirted all over on stage at the very first Club Anarchy party during the forced orgasm scene. Sara and she had become pretty close, and Kitty was a regular performer for Anarchy. Kitty became Sara's regular performing partner on stage for majority of her performances. Kitty and her husband initially attended the events together. I got along with her husband. We would often hang out at events. He identified as a Dominant, but I would describe him