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Chapter 71: The Bonnie Bombshell

  • Writer: Dankerfader
    Dankerfader
  • Jul 29
  • 4 min read

Updated: Oct 15

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Sara was the host and owner of Club Anarchy, but Bonnie Bondage was our star performer. At majority of our events, she was the head lining act. She featured on majority of our fliers. Bonnie also lived in the Ambassador building on the floor above us and was Sara's best friend.


Sara and Bonnie loved all the same types of music. They had the same clothing style. They were both Dominatrices.


Bonnie was a hardcore lesbian. At her Christmas party I was the only man who was invited. Some of the guests kept asking why a man even was there. Bonnie actually stuck up for me and told everyone I was the one man she actually liked. She hated men but would often comment on how much she liked me.


Bonnie often said she felt perfectly comfortable getting naked in front of me which always seemed like an odd thing to say. If she wasn’t a lesbian, I would think she was hitting on me. I like to think we were friends.


We had made Bonnie part of our group when she first came to Safehaven. Sara had mentored her, and I had done everything I could to help advertise and get her name out there.


By now Bonnie had built her own following of play partners and submissives and our two groups formed an unconventional family at the Ambassador Apartment building.


For Bonnie's birthday, Bonnie's significant other Iggy bought four tickets to the Misfits concert. Both Sara and Bonnie were obsessed with the Misfits. She invited Sara and Kitty to go with them. The night of the concert, Sara and Kitty started arguing before they left.


Apparently, Kitty was tired and in a shitty mood. Kitty had to work the next day and didn't want to go to the concert anymore. Sara loves the Misfits. There was no way Kitty was going to convince Sara to miss the Misfits.


When they reached the show and met with Bonnie and Iggy, Kitty started acting like a little brat and was all quiet and anti-social.


About an hour into the concert Sara and Kitty argued again and Kitty ended up leaving and sitting in the car for the remainder of the concert.


Iggy proceeded to talk shit on Kitty. Bonnie also chimed in. Apparently, Bonnie never liked Kitty. Sara told Bonnie she was going to the bathroom and ended up going out to the car and arguing with Kitty some more. The night was ruined for Sara, so her and Kitty left early. As far as Bonnie knew Sara just never came back from the bathroom.


That night basically inspired a mini feud with Sara and Bonnie. Mainly fueled by Kitty and Iggy. Both Sara and Bonnie are very stubborn. Sara is the type of person that will never apologize or come to you when you are arguing. If you are in a fight with Sara, you have to be the one to reach out and try to fix things. Sara will usually go along with it and fix things, but she is never the person to initiate contact.


Sara will let bridges burn no matter how important you are. After a month of not speaking to each other, Bonnie became really hurt and like any woman scorned she got her revenge.

Bonnie knew our events were dependent on our social media. Without it no one would know about our events online. Bonnie went on Facebook and organized all her friends and followers to report all eight of our social media accounts.


Bonnie claimed we were illegally using her pictures without her permission. They even went after Sara and my personal accounts and my stuff for Dankerfader. I think Iggy wrote letters to Facebook saying we were sex traffickers too.


We lost all our social media accounts for Club Anarchy and Mistress Tetra on Facebook. Over 10,000 followers. I had to send Facebook a picture of my ID to save my own personal account. Ever since that day though, I am on some type of social media blacklist.


Nothing I post on any account I make for myself gets much attention or likes. Even when I buy new computers or phones. I moved my house and changed internet provider. I have theorized they track me with my IP address.


I was livid to say the least. Every time I tried to start a new account it somehow got reported again. I tried starting over on Instagram and somehow that got reported as well.


After some research and constantly complaining to Facebook I was able to retain four of the original Facebook accounts. Unfortunately, I had no proof they were real people so the accounts would be changed into brand pages with likes instead of friends or followers.

The amount of people seeing our posts and events was drastically reduced.


I could no longer add new friends or seek new followers we were dependent on people finding out page on their own and liking it.


Sara never really grasped the importance of our social media following. She really had nothing to do with any of it. She did not put in the years of work building those accounts up and posting daily.


Sara did not really care when we lost the accounts. In the end the only person Bonnie punished was me and once again I had nothing to do with anyone's feud.


Throughout doing the events, I was ambitious. I always wanted to improve. I always wanted to bring more people in and make more money. It was not about greed because Sara did not always give me an honest cut anyways. I just wanted to succeed.


I think Sara’s motivation from the events shifted more to the fame and attention she got from doing the events.


Obviously, she needed the money to get by, but I think making money was not her main objective. She would have most likely still done the events for free if she had to.


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